Advice tends to be a tug-of-war: tough love vs. self care, making change happen vs. gratitude, and being realistic vs. manifesting. Which side is correct?

In reality, your best life is a mix of being kind to yourself and pushing yourself. And due to lack of domain availability, we’re calling this “recognizing your luck and making your lemons into lemonade.”

It might feel silly for a beauty and mindset blog to improve your life - but we believe that the smallest tweaks (like organizing your junk drawer, buying a cute water bottle, or getting aesthetic inspiration) are life-changing hacks.

What we won’t do here

One thing we won’t do is speak to you as a guru in the self improvement field. It can get weird. No one should consider themselves “the expert who figured out life”, preaching the secrets to laypeople.

What we will do here

This blog is a collection of pure research! Podcasts, youtube interviews with experts, other blogs, reddit, etc. We pair unique ideas from all over the place to bring you fresh takes and inspiration (mixed with a few fun and useless girly topics).

Cheers - we’re happy to have you here!